A mother's blessing is stronger than any amulet! Oh mother's blessing! how to bless a child.
To receive a mother's Blessing means to regain the energy of life that everyone needs in order to “live well and make good.” The true meaning, the hidden meaning of the Blessing, as well as the procedure for receiving it, have unfortunately been lost by us along with many of the cultural achievements of our ancestors. This invaluable tradition has been carried down to this day by only a few representatives of ancient clans among some small nations.
The essence of the blessing is that the mother creates a kind of protective cocoon around the child, which does not allow him to get into trouble and directs all the actions that the mother blessed for in the right direction. The blessing works even over long distances.
Mother's blessing is the strongest, it is believed that the person blessed by the mother becomes invulnerable. Her love protects from negative influences.
Today, every person, having adopted this technique, can receive the Mother’s Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity, and every mother can bless her children. And then you will see with your own eyes changes for the better in your life and in the lives of your children.
Children 8-14 years old are blessed verbally. Children over 14 years old - in writing. If a child over 8 years old does not have a mother, or she is very far away, and the child wants to receive a Blessing, then he can ask his mother for it in writing.
If a mother decides to bless her child, then she must prepare for this. First you need to read “A mother’s prayer for her child,” then think through the wishes for your child. Everything you wish at this moment will definitely come true. Therefore, formulate your wishes in such a way as not to limit the child’s capabilities, not to build his life according to your plan, because you are an ordinary person and you can make mistakes! Please do not wish anything specific, for example: “I wish you to have a higher education.” Maybe your child won’t want to have it, or maybe, on the contrary, he will want to have several different ones, but you have limited him in advance. Wishes that do not take away freedom of choice can be:
- I wish you to be, live, act, be able and have;
– I wish you to rejoice in your successes and the successes of those around you;
– I wish you to receive satisfaction and prosperity by engaging in your creative self-expression;
– I wish you to love and be loved;
– I wish you to have free will;
– I wish you to have an easy financial life;
– I wish you to have a source of strength, beauty and harmony in your heart and mind;
– I wish you to have self-confidence;
– I wish you to have the ability to breathe fully and freely;
– I wish you that your life flow heals every cell of your body;
– I wish you to have the ability to trust people;
– I wish you to have enough time, energy, wisdom, money to fulfill all your desires;
– I wish you to be able to successfully get to the right time and place;
– I wish you to be generous, accepting it entirely and with joy;
– I wish you to be an expression of the Divine Origin of life in all its greatness;
– I wish you to be ready to accept the best;
– I wish you to enjoy yourself and accept yourself as you are;
- I wish you everything that the Lord wishes for you - etc.
So, think carefully about what you would like to wish for your child and remember these wishes. At the moment of Blessing, they don’t read anything from a piece of paper!
Blessing– it’s like first communion, so prepare it like a holiday. You can buy a gift, decorate the table. Explain to the child before the Blessing what it means and what it gives to the person. This is a sacrament, so your communication with your child should take place without prying eyes. You can celebrate with family and friends, but the Blessing process itself must take place in a separate room. Standing in front of the child and looking straight into his eyes, the mother says: “I give you my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. And I wish you......". At the same time, you should have in your hands an icon of the Mother of God, purchased specifically for this occasion, or any family icon that is passed down from generation to generation in your family. Pass the icon into his hands, hug and kiss him. From this moment your child is Blessed!
If your child is over 14 years old, then after reading “A Mother’s Prayer for her Child,” you write him a letter: “Hello, son (daughter)! I am writing to you to give you my maternal Blessing for a happy life, material well-being and prosperity. I wish you…….. I give you my maternal Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen". Burn the written letter. It is advisable to write the letter in pencil.
After the Blessing is given, you need to read the Blessing Prayer for 7 days, morning and evening. Remember the date and time when you gave the Blessing to the child. Monitor the child’s progress and behavior on the 7th day after the Blessing. If a child has no changes for the better, there is no independence, and his successes do not please you - Bless him again. Do this until you are sure that the Blessing has definitely passed. Prayers before and after the Blessing must be read every time.
IF YOU ARE OVER 14 AND WANT TO BE BLESSED
Place a photo of your mother next to you (you can do without it), imagine. That your mother is sitting opposite and you want to talk to her. Start your letter something like this: “Hello, Mom! I am writing you this letter from far away with a request - give me, mother, a blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I live, mother, .....” And then tell everything, everything, as much as possible about your life - good and bad. There may be insults and reproaches, tears, declarations of love. Whatever the hand wants to write must be written. This is not easy to do, do not restrain your emotions, do not pay attention to mistakes, calligraphy. No one will read this letter, even you don’t dare re-read it. Your task is to throw out on paper everything unspoken in order to restore and establish the subtle threads of your relationship with your mother. You will write until your thoughts run out, and then your hand, as if by itself, will write: “I bless you.” When you finish writing, burn the letter without rereading it. Record the date and time of writing.
HOW TO TRACK IF YOU HAVE RECEIVED A BLESSING
If your mother responded to your request and gave you a Blessing, then on the 7th day you will receive any (small) profit from your home. If there is a loss, it means there is no Blessing. Don't stop halfway! Write a letter again!
If there is a profit on the 7th day, it means that the 1st stage has been completed. Now we need to track the 7th week from the day the letter was written. If the maternal Blessing is really given to you, then in the 7th week you will receive as much as you have not received for a long time. The next step is to track the 7th month from the date of writing the letter to your mother. There may or may not be a lot of money, but this month you will definitely lay a solid foundation for your comfortable future. If this month you were asked to borrow money or you come across beggars at every step, it means that something didn’t work out again. Be patient and write to mom again! Let the letter be shorter each time - it doesn’t matter.
A MOTHER'S PRAYER FOR HER CHILD
All-merciful Lady, Most Holy Lady, Mother of God, my undoubted One of the Boundless and Supermundane Worlds! Hallowed be Thy Name and Creation with the power and Glory of Hope! The covers of Your Love are spread over the World. In Thy mercy my child……….. have mercy.
O Great, One, Creator, Almighty Creator of Heaven and Earth, Lord of the Sacred Fire, in the Name of Christ and by the power of the Love of Christ, forgive all his (her) sins, voluntary and involuntary, committed by him (her) before You. Blessed Mother of God, Mother of new spiritual birth, guide him (her) on the True Path, and enlighten him (her), and enlighten him (her) with Your Light for the salvation of the Soul and the healing of the Body.
God! Bless him (her) in the house, near the house, in the field, at work, on the road and in every place of Your possession.
Queen Sovereign of the World, protect him (her) under the protection of Your Saints from a flying bullet, from an arrow, a knife, a sword, poison, fire, a flood, from a mortal wound (irradiation) and from a vain death.
Lord, protect him (her) from visible and invisible enemies, from all troubles, evils and misfortunes. Heal him/her from all diseases and cleanse him/her from all filth (alcohol, tobacco, drugs, etc.).
Ease his (her) mental suffering and sorrow. Grant him (her) the grace of Your Holy Spirit for many years of life, health and chastity, and give him (her) the Blessing for a pious family life and pious childbearing.
God! Grant me a parental Blessing for my child in the coming mornings, days and evenings, as well as nights for the sake of Your Name. For Your Kingdom is eternal, omnipotent and omnipotent. Amen.
PRAYER AFTER THE CHILD'S BLESSING
Lord Almighty and Mother of God!
Lead me into the image of Heavenly Motherhood. Communicate true Love, Mercy, Long-suffering in the upbringing of my children, whom I completely entrust to Your Most Holy Will and place in Your care.
May my maternal Blessing for Life, Abundance and Prosperity merge with yours.
Blessed Mother of God, Mother of new Spiritual birth, heal the wounds of Your children with Your Motherly Love. May they be healed and made alive in the Lord. Heavenly Eminence, Mother of God, I give my son (your daughter) without reserve to the Altar of Your holy Love…..
Oh, All-Blessed One, help me to see clearly in suffering, to sanctify the sacrifice and to bless the Path. Amen.
May the Lord protect you! Good morning!
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Please teach me how to properly give a parental blessing to children for marriage, what icons are given and by whose parents, because... the groom has no mother, and the bride’s father died, the bride has godparents, but all contact with the groom’s godparents has been lost and they did not take part in his upbringing.
Priest Afanasy Gumerov answers:
Since biblical times, parental blessing has been considered a condition for a strong and happy marriage. During the wedding sacrament, the priest prays: “God remember the parents who raised them: through the prayers of the parents, the foundations of the houses are established.” God gave parents special authority over their children. They must use it with love and wisdom.
According to tradition, the groom and his parents come to the house of the bride's parents and ask them for their daughter's hand in marriage. Upon consent to marriage, they, together with the groom’s parents, bless the newlyweds for a family union: the groom with the icon of Christ the Savior, the girl with the icon of the Most Holy Theotokos. The young make the sign of the cross and kiss the holy images. By presenting the icons, parents express the lofty thought that now that the time of raising children is over for them, they with faith and hope entrust them to the all-powerful intercession of the Lord and Mother of God. These icons are placed in the red corner. Often several generations were blessed with them. They become family and tribal shrines.
If one of the parents is no longer there, then the survivor blesses.
In the old days, godparents also participated in the blessing. Unfortunately, in our time, godparents rarely participate in the spiritual education of their godchildren. They do not participate in the arrangement of their marriage.
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, prayers for the sake of Thy Most Pure Mother, hear me, Thy sinful and unworthy servant.
Lord, in the mercy of Your power my child, have mercy and save him for Your name’s sake.
Lord, forgive him all the sins, voluntary and involuntary, that he committed before You.
Lord, guide him on the true path of Your commandments and enlighten him and enlighten him with Your light of Christ, for the salvation of the soul and the healing of the body.
Lord, bless him in the house, around the house, at school, in the field, at work and on the road, and in every place of Your possession.
Lord, protect him under the shelter of Your Saints from a flying bullet, arrow, knife, sword, poison, fire, flood, from a deadly ulcer (atomic rays) and from vain death.
Lord, protect him from visible and invisible enemies, from all troubles, evils and misfortunes.
Lord, heal him from all diseases, cleanse him from all filth (wine, tobacco, drugs) and ease his mental suffering and sorrow.
Lord, grant him the grace of Your Holy Spirit for many years of life, health and chastity.
Lord, increase and strengthen his mental abilities and physical strength.
Lord, give him Your blessing for a godly family life and godly procreation.
Lord, grant also to me, Thy unworthy and sinful servant, a parental blessing on my child at this time of morning, day, evening and night for the sake of Thy name, for Thy Kingdom is eternal, omnipotent and omnipotent. Amen.
Prayer of parents for the blessing of children
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, bless, sanctify, preserve my child with the power of Your Life-giving Cross.
Troparion, tone 2:
The memory of the righteous is with praise, but the testimony of the Lord, the Forerunner, is sufficient for you: for you have shown that you are truly and more honorable than the prophets, as if you were worthy to baptize the Preached One in the streams. Moreover, having suffered for the truth, rejoicing, you preached the good news to those in hell of God revealed in the flesh, taking away the sin of the world and giving us great mercy.
Kontakion, tone 5:
The glorious beheading of the forerunner, a certain Divine sight, and the coming of the Savior was preached to those in hell; Let Herodia weep, having asked for lawless murder: for he did not love the law of God, nor the living age, but a feigned, temporary one.
Prayer:
To the Baptist of Christ, preacher of repentance, do not despise me who repents, but copulating with the heavenly ones, pray to the Lady for me, unworthy, sad, weak and sad, fallen into many troubles, burdened by the stormy thoughts of my mind: for I am a den of evil deeds, by no means have an end to sinful customs; For my mind is nailed down by earthly things. What will I do, I do not know, and to whom will I resort, so that my soul will be saved? Only to you, Saint John, give the same name of grace, as you are before the Lord, according to the Mother of God, greater than all who are born, for you were deemed worthy to touch the top of the King Christ, who takes away the sins of the world, the Lamb of God: pray for Him for my sinful soul, so from now on , at the first ten hour, I will bear a good burden and receive compensation with the last.
To her, the Baptist of Christ, the honest Forerunner, the ultimate prophet, the first martyr in grace, the teacher of fasters and hermits, the teacher of purity and the close friend of Christ, I pray to you, I resort to you, do not reject me from your intercession, but raise me up, having fallen into many sins; renew my soul with repentance, as with the second baptism, of which you are the ruler: with baptism you wash away sin, and preach repentance for the cleansing of every bad deed; Cleanse me with the sins of the defiled and force me to enter, even if nothing bad enters, into the Kingdom of Heaven. Amen.
A mother's sigh for her children
God! To the Creator of all creatures, adding mercy to mercy, You have made me worthy to be the mother of a family; Your goodness has given me children, and I dare to say: they are Your children! Because You gave them existence, revived them with an immortal soul, revived them through baptism for a life in accordance with Your will, adopted them and accepted them into the bosom of Your Church, Lord! Keep them in a state of grace until the end of their lives; grant them to be partakers of the sacraments of Your covenant; sanctify by Thy truth; may Thy holy name be sanctified in them and through them! Grant me your gracious help in educating them for the glory of Your name and the benefit of your neighbor! Give me methods, patience and strength for this purpose! Teach me to plant in their hearts the root of true wisdom - Thy fear! Illuminate them with the light of Your Wisdom that governs the universe! May they love You with all their souls and thoughts; may they cleave to You with all their hearts and throughout their entire life may they tremble at Your words! Grant me the understanding to convince them that true life consists in keeping your commandments; that work, strengthened by piety, brings serene contentment in this life and ineffable bliss in eternity. Open to them the understanding of Your Law! May they act until the end of their days in the feeling of Your omnipresence! Plant in their hearts horror and disgust from all lawlessness; let them be blameless in your ways; May they always remember that You, All-Good God, are a champion of Your law and righteousness! Keep them in chastity and reverence for Your name! Let them not discredit Your Church by their behavior, but let them live according to its instructions! Inspire them with a desire for useful teaching and make them capable of every good deed! May they acquire a true understanding of those objects whose information is necessary in their condition; may they be enlightened with knowledge beneficial to humanity. God! Manage me to impress with indelible marks on the minds and hearts of my children the fear of partnerships with those who do not know Thy fear, to instill in them every possible distance from any alliance with the lawless. Let them not listen to rotten conversations; Let them not listen to frivolous people; May they not be led astray from Your path by bad examples; May they not be tempted by the fact that sometimes the path of the wicked is successful in this world!
Heavenly Father! Grant me the grace to take every possible care to tempt my children with my actions, but, constantly keeping their behavior in mind, to distract them from errors, correct their mistakes, curb their stubbornness and obstinacy, refrain from striving for vanity and frivolity; Let them not be carried away by foolish thoughts, let them not follow their hearts, let them not become proud in their thoughts, let them not forget You and Your law. May iniquity not destroy their mind and health, may sins not weaken their mental and physical strength. Righteous Judge, who punishes children for the sins of their parents to the third and fourth generation, turn away such punishment from my children, do not punish them for my sins; but sprinkle them with the dew of Your grace, that they may prosper in virtue and holiness, that they may increase in Your favor and in the love of pious people.
Father of generosity and all mercy! According to my parental feeling, I would wish for my children every abundance of earthly blessings, I would wish them blessings from the dew of heaven and from the fatness of the earth, but may Thy holy will be with them! Arrange their fate according to Your good pleasure, do not deprive them of their daily bread in life, send down to them everything they need in time to acquire a blessed eternity, be merciful to them when they sin before You, do not impute to them the sins of their youth and ignorance, bring their hearts to contrition when they resist the guidance of Your goodness; Punish them and have mercy, directing them to the path pleasing to You, but do not reject them from Your presence! Accept their prayers with favor, grant them success in every good deed; do not turn Your face away from them in the days of their tribulation, lest temptations befall them beyond their strength. Overshadow them with Your mercy, may Your Angel walk with them and protect them from all misfortune and evil paths, All-Good God! Make me a mother who rejoices over her children, so that they will be my joy in the days of my life and my support in my old age. Honor me, with trust in Your mercy, to appear with them at Your Last Judgment and with unworthy boldness to say: Here I am and my children whom You gave to me, Lord! Yes, together with them glorifying Your ineffable goodness and eternal love, I extol Your Most Holy Name, Father, Son and Holy Soul, forever and ever. Amen.
This prayer was distributed to believers in the Kazan Ambrosievskaya women's hermitage near the village. Shamordino.
The Most Holy Theotokos in front of Her icon “Seeking the Lost”, or “Deliverance from the Troubles of the Suffering”
Troparion, tone 7:
Rejoice, Blessed Virgin Mary, who bore the Eternal Child and God in Her arms. Ask Him to give peace to the world and salvation to our souls. The Son, O Mother of God, tells You that He will fulfill all Your requests for good. For this reason, we also fall down and pray, and those who hope in Thee, that we may not perish, we call Thy name: For Thou art, O Lady, the seeker of the lost.
Prayer:
Zealous Intercessor, Compassionate Mother of the Lord, I come running to You, the accursed one and the most sinful person above all; Hear the voice of my prayer and hear my cry and groaning. For my iniquities have exceeded my head, and I, like a ship in the abyss, am plunging into the sea of my sins. But You, All-Good and Merciful Lady, do not despise me, who is desperate and perishing in sins; have mercy on me, who repent of my evil deeds, and turn my lost, cursed soul to the right path. On You, my Lady Theotokos, I place all my hope. Thou, Mother of God, preserve and keep me under Thy roof, now and ever and unto ages of ages. Amen.
Prayers to the Mother of God
O Most Holy Lady Virgin Mary, save and keep my children under Your shelter (names), all youths, young women and infants, baptized and nameless and carried in the womb of their mother. Cover them with the robe of Your motherhood, keep them in the fear of God and in obedience to their parents, pray to my Lord and Your Son to grant them what is useful for their salvation. I entrust them to Your maternal supervision, for You are the Divine Protection of Your servants.
Mother of God, introduce me to the image of Your heavenly motherhood. Heal the mental and physical wounds of my children (names), caused by my sins. I entrust my child entirely to my Lord Jesus Christ and Your, Most Pure, heavenly protection. Amen.
From the convent in Shuya, Ivanovo region.
Holy Guardian Angel of my children (names), cover them with your cover from the arrows of the demon, from the eyes of the seducer, and keep their hearts in angelic purity. Amen.
Prayer for children, Rev. Ambrose of Optina
Lord, You alone weigh everything, you can do everything, and you want everyone to be saved and to come to the mind of Truth. Give some sense to my children (names) knowledge of Thy truth and Thy Holy will and strengthen them to walk according to Thy commandments and have mercy on me, a sinner
Prayer:
Holy glorious and all-praised Great Martyr of Christ Varvaro! Gathered today in your Divine temple, people and the race of your relics venerate and kiss with love, your suffering as a martyr and in their passion-maker Christ Himself, who gave you, not only to believe in Him, but also to suffer for Him, with pleasing praises, we pray to you , the well-known desire of our intercessor: pray with us and for us to God who beseeches Him from His compassion, that He may mercifully hear us asking for His goodness, and not leave us with all the needful petitions for salvation and life, and grant a Christian death to our belly, painless and shameless, I will give peace, I will partake of the Divine Mysteries, and He will give His great mercy to everyone in every place, in every sorrow and situation that requires His love for mankind and help, so that by the grace of God and your warm intercession, with soul and body always abiding in health, we glorify God, wondrous in His saints Israel, who does not remove His help from us always, now and ever and forever and ever. Amen.
Children are the future of the country, and the fate of Russia depends on how today’s children grow up. Only a developed and educated generation can ensure a prosperous life for the people. During the Soviet Union, school education, despite all its shortcomings, was one of the best in the world. Nowadays, school education is constantly being reformed according to Western models, and, unfortunately, not for the better. A big loss in education has been its de-ideologization, aggravated by the propaganda of the principles of “get everything from life” in the media. As a result of the lack of ideological preparation, a generation began to form that “chooses Pepsi.” Evidence of this process can be seen at every step.
That is why not only people with Orthodox consciousness, but also many people far from Orthodoxy, with anxiety, faith and hope, are preparing their children for the new school year - the beginning of the children’s great work in mastering the land of knowledge, in which many trials and labors await children.
The formation of a person’s intellect and his knowledge base goes in parallel with the development of his spiritual sphere. The fruitful influence of spiritual development on a child’s educational abilities is undeniable. It is enough to recall the life of St. Sergius of Radonezh, for whom learning was given with great difficulty in his childhood, and only thanks to spiritual development did he develop the ability to learn.
Most gracious Lord, bestow upon us the grace of Your Holy Spirit, bestowing and strengthening our spiritual strength, so that by listening to the teaching taught to us, we may grow to You, our Creator, for glory, for the comfort of our parents, for the benefit of the Church and the Fatherland.
The Church has always approved of education, and in earlier times, with a shortage of schools, it itself carried out educational work. Nowadays, the Church teaches everyone, especially children, the basics of Orthodoxy. And, of course, the Church prays, asking the Lord for help to all students.
In the Church of St. Alexander Nevsky in Verbilki, it has already become a tradition on the last Sunday of August, on the eve of the start of the school year, to bless children for school. The blessing of children is carried out after the Sunday liturgy during the water blessing prayer.
On this day, especially many children of all ages come to the liturgy with their parents.
For church-going children, participation in the liturgy has already become commonplace. Young children and children who rarely attend Divine services are still timid and huddle close to their parents.
On this day there are noticeably more children at the service than during the usual Sunday liturgy. Usually on Sundays, parents bring mostly young children to the liturgy at the Church of St. Alexander Nevsky to receive communion. Today, children of school age predominate. In large families, all children come to the service and blessing.
Churched children, before the start of the service, light their own candles and venerate the icons.
Sunday liturgy follows its established canons. Incense is performed, the Gospel and the Apostle are read
The priest reads prayers at the altar.
Parishioners participate in joint prayers during the Divine service.
The Great Entrance with the Holy Gifts precedes the parishioners' communion.
Before receiving the Holy Mysteries of Christ, parents and grandmothers help young children venerate the icons.
The parishioners begin to prepare for communion.
According to a long-established tradition, children are the first to approach the Holy Chalice.
The Sunday liturgy ends with dismissal, during which parishioners venerate the cross.
As during communion, children approach the cross first.
Small children venerate the cross in the arms of their parents.
After the end of the liturgy, a prayer service for water is held in the Alexander Nevsky Church, during which Father Andrei blesses the children to study. Parishioners line up in a semicircle around a vessel with water for consecration near the entrance to the temple.
Children come to the fore, because Father Andrei will bless them today.
The children have grown noticeably over the summer. The old clothes are becoming too small. However, the new school outfits are not ready yet; children will wear them to school with bouquets of flowers for the start of the school year on September 1.
Lord our God and Creator, who adorned us with His image, taught Your chosen ones Your law, so that those who listen to it marvel, Who revealed to children the secrets of wisdom, Who bestowed it on Solomon and all who have it - open the hearts, minds and lips of these Your servants (names of the rivers) ), in order to understand the power of Thy law and successfully learn the useful teaching taught by it for the glory of Thy Most Holy Name, for the benefit and structure of Thy Holy Church and the understanding of Thy good and perfect will.
Deliver them from all the snares of the enemy, keep them in the faith of Christ and purity throughout their lives - may they be strong in mind and in the fulfillment of Your commandments...
You should see the children's shining eyes when the priest reads out the list of students' names. After all, now the priest and the entire parish, and with them the entire Church, are praying for the Lord’s help to each of the children present.
How much children need this help in the most important work of children - studying!
After the end of the water-blessing prayer service, parishioners, including children, disassemble the blessed water.
Some people simply drink a cup of holy water in the vestibule of the church, while others take water home. There is always enough holy water for everyone.
A mother's blessing is stronger than any amulet! Mom is the most important person in life. This is probably why a mother’s curse is the worst thing you can hear. The blessing was first mentioned in the Old Testament of the Bible. God gave it to Adam and Eve when he appointed them to rule paradise, to be fruitful, multiply and fill the earth.
How does the blessing work:
The importance of a mother is difficult to overestimate; it is not for nothing that she is connected with her child with invisible threads until the end of her days. Psychics claim that each of us is influenced by our mother at the level of subtle matters. Energetically, a child is an extension of the mother. That is why she can change his fate. And his future life depends on the direction in which she wants to direct this very destiny.
A blessing should be given not only before the start of family life, but also before any significant event. For example, buying or selling an apartment, moving, starting a business. The essence of the blessing is that the mother creates a kind of protective cocoon around the child, which does not allow him to get into trouble and directs all the actions that the mother blessed for in the right direction.
The blessing works even over long distances. It is believed that a person blessed by his mother becomes invulnerable. It is impossible to refuse a blessing, even if the parents do not like the things to be given a blessing, otherwise the child may face failures that threaten life and health.
How to bless a child
When blessing a mother for serious actions, she must read a prayer and then say a wish. At the same time, do not limit the child’s capabilities by wishing for specific actions and do not stipulate ways to achieve the goal.
Over the next seven days, read the blessing prayer morning and evening.
After a week, changes should follow, for example, the first successful results, albeit small ones. If there is no change, repeat the blessing and monitor the results on the seventh day. Even orphans who do not know their parents can receive maternal blessing.
The soul of a mother is a guardian angel for children, and you can contact her by writing a letter.
A MOTHER'S PRAYER FOR HER CHILD:
Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, prayers for the sake of Your Most Pure Mother, hear me, your sinful and unworthy servant (name).
Lord, in the mercy of Your power, my child (name), have mercy and save him for Your name’s sake.
Lord, forgive him all the sins, voluntary and involuntary, that he committed before You.
Lord, guide him on the true path of Your commandments and enlighten him and enlighten him with Your light of Christ, for the salvation of the soul and the healing of the body.
Lord, bless him in the house, around the house, in the field, at work and on the road and in every place of Your possession.
Lord, protect him under the protection of Your Saints from a flying bullet, arrow, knife, sword, poison, fire, flood, from a deadly ulcer and from vain death.
Lord, protect him from visible and invisible enemies, from all troubles, evils and misfortunes.
Lord, heal him from all diseases, cleanse him from all filth (wine, tobacco, drugs) and ease his mental suffering and sorrow.
Lord, grant him the grace of the Holy Spirit for many years of life, health, and chastity.
Lord, give him Your blessing for a godly family life and godly childbearing.
Lord, grant me, Thy unworthy and sinful servant, a parental blessing on my child in the coming mornings, days, evenings and nights, for Thy name’s sake, for Thy Kingdom is eternal, omnipotent and omnipotent. Amen.
Lord, have mercy. (12 times.)
How not to say too much If your children’s lives are not going well, do not rush to blame yourself for it, but analyze your behavior.
The mother’s words at the subconscious level are perceived as the only possible truth.
Thus, the person, without realizing it, does everything possible to ensure that the mother’s wishes are fulfilled.
Therefore, the energy with which the words are spoken is important. The moment simple words turn into screaming, negative emotions are released. Therefore, you need to communicate with children in a calm voice. If you do say bad words, immediately ask for forgiveness. Definitely from the heart, because only sincere repentance can cleanse the biofield of negativity.
Why is one person just lucky from the first days of his career? Looking at his life, you see that he is protected from unpleasant events and has the energy of life to overcome obstacles along the way, while the other suffers failures, and if he succeeds, he spends a lot of effort...
There is an answer to this not so simple question. A successful and happy life depends on the correct feedback between the surrounding reality and your consciousness and is directly related to the Blessing of the mother. If a person wants to change something in his life, first of all he needs to receive the blessing of his mother. For life, otherwise his attempts will end in failure every time.
To receive a mother's Blessing means to regain the energy of life that everyone needs in order to “live, live, and make good.” Moreover, “good” is not only material values, but also everything else a person needs for a happy life.
Literally bit by bit we managed to restore the tradition of Mother's Blessing.
Today, every person, having adopted this technique, can receive the Mother’s Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity, and every mother can bless her children.
Having received the Blessing, you will see with your own eyes changes for the better in your life.
HOW TO GIVE A BLESSING TO CHILDREN:
The mother gives a blessing to the child when he turns eight years old.
From eight to fourteen years of age, the Blessing is given orally - “eye to eye.”
The blessing is like first communion, so prepare it like a celebration. You can buy a gift, set a festive table.
Explain to the child before the Blessing that it returns the energy of life to him, and, knowing how to take responsibility, he will be able to fulfill his destiny. During the Blessing, the child receives the protection of the Mother of God, and difficulties will be avoided.
If a mother decides to bless her child, then she must prepare for this. First you need to read “A mother’s prayer for her child,” then think through the wishes for your child. Formulate your wishes in such a way as not to limit the child’s capabilities and not to build his life according to your plan. You are an ordinary person and you can make mistakes!
Please don't wish for anything specific. Wishes should be such that they do not take away freedom of choice:
I wish you to rejoice in your successes and the successes of those around you.
I wish you to live in happiness and joy and have harmonious relationships with other people
I wish you satisfaction while pursuing your creative purpose.
I wish you to love and be loved
I wish you to have a source of strength and harmony in your heart and mind
I wish you to be confident in yourself
I wish you to have enough strength, energy and wisdom
I wish you the opportunity to always be in the right place at the right time.
I wish you to be generous, accepting your generosity entirely and with joy
I wish you to accept yourself as you are
I wish you everything that the Lord can give you...
So, think carefully about what you would like to wish for your child and remember these wishes. At the moment of Blessing, they don’t read anything from a piece of paper!
The Blessing procedure is a Sacrament, so your communication with the child should take place without prying eyes. You can celebrate with family and friends, but the Blessing process itself must take place in a separate room.
Standing in front of the child and looking into his eyes, the mother says:
I give you son (daughter) _________ (name) my maternal Blessing for life and wish you... (here you say everything that your soul wishes for the child).
At the same time, you should have in your hands an icon of the Mother of God, purchased specifically for this occasion. Tell your child that this icon, together with your Blessing, will protect him. Pass the icon into his hands and kiss him. Your child is now blessed.
After the Blessing is given, you need to read the Blessing Prayer for seven days, preferably morning and evening.
This prayer will help the mother let her child go. This condition is very unusual for the mother and sometimes even causes slight discomfort for a while.
How to give a Blessing to a child over fourteen years old
If your child is over 14 years old, then he is blessed in writing.
After reading “A Mother’s Prayer for a Child,” you write him a letter:
“Hello, son (daughter), I am writing to you to give my mother’s Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I wish you... (list your wishes). I give you my maternal Blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. In the name of the Father and the Son and the Holy Spirit. Amen."
Burn the written letter. Remember the date and time when you gave a written Blessing to your child. And monitor the child’s progress and behavior on the seventh day after the Blessing. If a child has no changes for the better, has no independence, and his successes do not please you, bless him again. Do this until you are sure that the Blessing has definitely passed.
Prayers before and after the Blessing must be read every time.
If a child over eight years old, his birth mother has died or meeting her is impossible, he can ask for a Blessing in writing.
How to receive a maternal blessing as an adult
Many tried to receive the Blessing by talking to their mother.
But, as a rule, such a Blessing did not produce results. If you definitely want to receive a Blessing from your mother personally, then you will have to express to her face both all the good and all the bad that you have accumulated over many years.
And then she, in a “good” mood, should give you her Blessing.
There is a simpler and more accessible way to solve this problem - simply write a letter to your mother and burn it. And it doesn’t matter whether she is alive or not, whether she lives far from you or in the same house with you. At the same time, telling your mother that you asked her for a Blessing is not at all necessary, but it is not even advisable. Even if your relationship with your mother is very trusting, this should be your little secret.
Your letter is enough for mom to hear you.
First of all, you need to choose a time and place so that no one disturbs you while writing the letter.
Put a photo of your mother on the table, and if there is no photo, imagine that your mother is sitting opposite you and you want to talk to her.
You can light a candle. Read the “Appeal-Prayer” and the “Prayer of Guidance,” and with tenderness begin your letter: “Hello, Mom! I am writing to you from far away... I am writing you this letter with a request: give me, mother, a blessing for life, material well-being and prosperity. I live, mother, without your parental Blessing...”
And then you must write to your mother everything that you once wanted to tell her, but could not for some reason.
These can be grievances and reproaches, starting from early childhood, as well as unspoken words of love and gratitude. Whatever your hand and heart wants to write must be written.
Such a letter is not easy to write, and a lot of tears can be shed. Cry without holding back - these are tears of relief. If you want, you can tell your mom about your life, your joys and sorrows. When you write, do not pay attention to mistakes, the beauty of your handwriting and the completeness of your thoughts. No one will ever read this letter, and you don’t need to re-read it either. Your main task is to throw out everything unspoken on paper in order to restore and establish the finest threads of your relationship with your mother.
You need to write until your thoughts dry up, and when your hand, as if by itself, writes “I bless you.”
When you finish writing, burn the letter without rereading it and write down the date and time you finished writing.
What you need to do for the Mother's Blessing to come into your life
It must be remembered that the Blessing of the mother is directly related to Responsibility for one’s life. Our life is structured in such a way that not everyone is ready to take 100% responsibility for all the circumstances of their life.
Most often, a person avoids responsibility because he is afraid of the consequences of his decisions. As a rule, he thinks that he will be responsible for all his actions and bear the burden of guilt.
I would like to remind you that responsibility is completely unrelated to the concepts of “response” and “guilt”. Responsibility is the energy of life. It is associated with self-confidence and the energy of life that a person receives at birth.
It is important to note here that how a person manages these energies will determine how he will live. If he gives these energies to another person, then he will not have enough energy to fulfill his duty and mission.
Imagine that you are almost at your destination. You can already see the city, but you do not have enough gasoline to enter this city. You can ask drivers passing by for some gas, but if they give you their gas, they won't have enough to get there themselves. Typically, few people will stop to help you.
For the Mother's Blessing to come into your life, you must not waste your responsibility for seven days. In doing so, try to follow these recommendations:
1. Do not feel sorry, do not blame or reproach others.
2. Write down all the things you need to do. And do 2-5 things a day, so that no more than three remain.
3. Say out loud every day:
I am completely responsible for all the circumstances of my life
4. Stop doubting. I did it because I did it. If you doubt your actions, then it is fear, guilt or resentment.
5. Trust people more and stop controlling them. The phrase helps: “The less I interfere, the better it turns out.”
6. In the evening before going to bed, read a MOTHER’S PRAYER FOR YOUR CHILD
How to track the receipt of the Blessing
In life, everything obeys certain cycles. Thus, the grounding of material well-being occurs according to the 777 system. In this case, it is seven days, seven weeks and seven months.
Therefore, we will monitor three stages.
First stage
On the seventh day after writing the letter, you need to track what will happen to the material side of your life.
If your mother responded to your request and gave you her Blessing, then on the seventh day you will receive profit in your home. It can be expressed in money, valuable gifts and the like. If a debt was repaid to you, or you received money, or you found a penny on the street, or maybe you were given change in a store or given theater tickets - all this can be a sign that there is a Blessing.
It is very important to track what came first - profit or loss. If you are asked to borrow money, this is considered a sign that there is no Blessing.
And there is no need to specially adjust the “profit” situation - this will not help you!
Attention!
If there are no signs confirming the Blessing, or there have been no changes in material values on this day, you need to write the letter again.
Don't stop halfway!
By delaying writing the letter again, you may incur losses!
So, let’s say, on the seventh day after writing the letter, you made a profit - this means that the first stage of the Blessing has passed.
Second stage
Now we need to track the seventh week from the day the letter was written.
If the maternal Blessing is really given to you, then in the seventh week your expenses for this week will be much less than your income. Again, not because you will save on purpose, but because circumstances will turn out that way.
The income may exceed all your expectations.
Well, what if the seventh week did not bring you the desired results? On the contrary, you were asked to borrow money and the beggars did not pass you by either, or circumstances forced you to spend a lot. Don’t worry - our mothers very rarely “let us go” into an independent life at our first request! Be patient and, without delaying things, write to your mother again and ask for Blessings for life. Let the letter be shorter each time - it doesn’t matter. The main thing is that your request must be made in writing, and everything that you once did not say must be “poured” onto paper to the last drop.
Each such letter must be burned.
Third stage
After a successful seventh week, you need to track the seventh month from the day you wrote your letter to your mother. The seventh month may not bring a lot of money, but if you really receive the Blessing, this month will somehow lay a solid foundation for your well-being. This could be a new promising acquaintance, a lucrative offer of cooperation, a promotion, etc. And you will feel that you are standing firmly on your feet.