The actress who adopted and abandoned a boy. Germanova’s son, whom she returned to the orphanage, joined the army
“Everything was going just fine for me and my adopted son Kolya. We felt absolutely happy... And even in nightmare I couldn’t imagine what happened next,” sighs Evdokia Germanova, the leading actress of “Tabakerka”, who has played more than three dozen roles in films and on television and has recently crossed the half-century mark.
I don’t remember exactly what it was like when I arrived at the orphanage, when I was already allowed to take Kolya for a walk.
I think it's the fifth one. Or sixth? No, I don’t remember exactly. Yes, but what difference does it make... In general, 2000, summer. She arrived, as usual, before the appointed time. I'm sitting, waiting. Finally they bring out “mine” - he’s a little guy in sandals, looking around, probably looking for me. When I saw it, I think I was even happy. But he doesn’t run up. Still, as before, he approaches carefully, as if with caution. I take your hand, I feel - again wary. Well, at least he doesn’t mind. I ask: “Shall we go for a walk?” Nods silently. It seems that he even smiled... That summer day was especially good: the sun was gentle, not scorching, a light breeze, the greenery was washed after the rain and this made it somehow especially bright...
Let's go to the nearest public garden. I say something incessantly - I make up all sorts of unimaginable stories about birds, about a dragonfly, about a sad tree, about a cheerful beetle. And I’m surprised at myself where it just came from! And Kolya listens attentively, occasionally asking questions. That means he got involved in communication. They began to play hide and seek, catch up, blind man's buff. Finally, I see that the boy is exhausted, tired, and no longer reacts to anything. He’s really tiny - only a year and a half old. I take him in my arms, and suddenly... He smiled and pressed his whole body against me. He really pressed me hard. And then I fell asleep. In my arms! I look at this flushed cheek on my shoulder, at this sweet saliva and think: “After all, this trusting embrace contains the main thing - the little man unconditionally surrendered himself to me.”
And it was at that moment - I remember it clearly - that I realized: here he is - my child! And I disappeared. My whole insides accepted this boy as my own. As if by magic, all worries about him evaporated in my soul, this nagging doubt disappeared: after all, he was a stranger. And a completely new feeling was born: I am a mother, I have a son...
This is what Evdokia Germanova said in an interview about her adopted child.
EVDOKIA GERMANOVA WITH KOLYA. PHOTO: FIRST CHANNEL.
Colleagues of the actress told the continuation big story adoption - Kolya is studying to become a cook and will soon become a father.
Honored Artist of Russia Evdokia Germanova decided to adopt a child, since she did not have any children of her own. Now the artist is 57 years old, and she took the boy Kolya from orphanage 17 years ago, I first registered for patronage. A year later, she submitted documents for adoption, gave the boy her last name and he became Nikolai Nikolaevich Germanov... The guardianship had no doubts and gave the boy to the leading actress of “Tabakerka”.
In an interview, Germanova spoke about the reasons for adoption:
“By the age of forty I was left alone. A terrible depression came over me - I was simply torn apart by the feeling that everything in my life was bad, I was living meaninglessly, there was no future, no one needed me - neither in life nor in my profession. In general, my entire inner territory was engulfed in complete despair and hopelessness...
I admit: of course, there was a certain selfishness and even egocentrism in my decision to take the child from the orphanage, because according to by and large I saved myself. She did it out of despair, out of despair, but apparently she couldn’t do it any other way. There are many women who give birth to a toy for themselves - just to feel self-sufficient. My goal was different - I wanted to pass on my spiritual experience to someone, give strength, inspire someone to do something.”
EVDOKIA GERMANOVA WITH A SMALL RULE. PHOTO: FIRST CHANNEL.
At first, Germanova believed that she was very lucky to have a guy - inquisitive, smart, talented. But then, according to the actress, the guy began to steal, fight... She put him in psychiatric hospital and Kolya was diagnosed with chronic schizoaffective disorder. The actress refused the boy.
But everything is not so simple in this story. The guy grew up, studied, got married, was examined - the doctors declared him absolutely healthy.
KOLYA WITH A TEACHER IN THE CHILDREN'S HOME. PHOTO: SOCIAL NETWORKS
This topic has been raised several times.
For example, Malakhov’s “Let Them Talk” in 2014.
Maria Arbatova:
“I went to the program “Let them talk” about adopted son Evdokia Germanova Nikolai, because I met her when she was exactly Nikolai’s age. Alexander Demidov staged my youth play “The Envious” about Yuri Olesha in the studio at the “Theater” magazine, and Dunya was introduced to the role of the girl doll Suok. In my understanding, she remained a girl doll; the years had not changed anything, and when I learned that she was given a child to adopt, I was shocked. This story is loud, all the details are in plain sight, but yesterday’s shooting can sum up the plot. Of course, we must judge those who gave the lonely mentally unbalanced drinking actress (and this is exactly how I saw her at festivals, etc. for many years) a one and a half year old child. - expresses his point of view on his page in social networks Maria Arbatova. - Tabakov got her a wonderful two-room apartment for this child.
Dunya first dragged Nikolai on tour and sent him to kindergarten, and at the age of 5 she pushed him into school. An orphanage child at 5 years old! It wasn’t easy with the kindergarten either; Nikolai’s classmates who were sitting in the studio said that they regularly saw signs of beatings on him, and there were cases when the baby was afraid to go home.
The fact that Dunya brutally beat him is evidenced not only by the scars on his head, but also by a bunch of people who crossed paths with them at that time adults. When Nikolai went to school, problems began, and how could they not start if the boy fell from the frying pan into the fire? He behaved badly, studied poorly, was aggressive, that is, he turned from a downtrodden, intimidated doll into a complex child with a developing character.
Dunya’s teaching talents were such that for any offense she would beat him in the face with a belt with a buckle and lock him in the toilet for a day. And then she began to sing songs that a seven-year-old child had robbed both her and the entire theater, and in general she was afraid to be alone with him at night. All this was played out in best traditions“snuff boxes”, and the story was staged out to a bunch of my friends with groans and wringing of hands. At the same time, everyone saw a heavily drunk Dunya in the Central House of Writers restaurant, and a cutest, well-communicated child running around the tables. One fine day, Dunya sent eight-year-old Nikolai to a psychiatric hospital, colorfully explaining that he was a thief, a maniac, a rapist, a murderer, etc. The child was kept in a psychiatric hospital for a year, because it was not clear what to do with him - his foster mother began to abandon him, and this is a long process.
Dunya’s brother, having learned about the psychiatric hospital, visited the guy and wanted to take him for himself, but guardianship did not allow him due to his age, and Dunya ended her relationship with her brother after that. As a result, Nikolai was sent to an orphanage with a diagnosis of schizotypal personality disorder. Children's home turned out to be excellent, they certainly didn’t beat me or lock me up for a day as punishment, and upon leaving, Nikolai first of all removed the diagnosis. No “schizotypal personality disorder” was discovered in him, although, as you understand, such a problem would only intensify with age. He went to college to study to become a cook, began to live with a girl from the same orphanage and will soon be a father. Why did you come to the program? Yes, in order to show the only woman who appeared in his life as a mother that everything was fine with him, in order to demonstrate his own worth and, perhaps, restore at least some kind of relationship. And, of course, ask why she did this to him? After all, he was only eight years old! But an attempt to meet on camera yielded nothing but the actress’s face with an obvious hangover and her dirty language. And, meanwhile, there are also legal nuances. Germanova received the apartment for the child, and in order not to contact her, the orphanage somehow arranged for him to receive new apartment, which, by the way, hasn’t been given yet, and it’s already September!
If it weren't for the girl, Nikolai would have become homeless! In addition, according to the law, when placing a child in an orphanage, a parent is obliged to pay him alimony from all his income, accumulated in his savings book until adulthood. Naturally, the actress didn’t pay him a penny, and the guy has no money at all.
And in general, if it weren’t for her brother and ex-husband who take care of Nikolai, it is completely unknown what his life would look like today. Everyone is horrified by the Del family, who made money from orphans, and the founder of this business can be recognized as Evdokia Germanova, who took advantage of an orphan, played enough and sent a healthy but unloved boy to a psychiatric hospital. You will laugh, the actress has a diploma in psychology and an international certificate of NLP PRACTITIONER and Member of the Board of Trustees charitable foundation"Save Life"
After Malakhov’s broadcast “The Devoted Child of Evdokia Germanova” the editors of the broadcast received huge amount calls and letters. Someone sympathized with the actress, but much more more people supported Nikolai. Soon, the teacher at the “Doshkolyonok” orphanage, Lydia Tulaydan, called, too, where Kolya used to be.
When Germanova brought him to us, she said that he could not eat many foods. We were surprised: what should we feed him then? As a result, he recovered with us, and when Evdokia came to visit him, she was even surprised that he had gained weight. Kolya never called her mom - only “Dusya”. The child was cheerful, cheerful, and very nimble.
She said that the boy was regularly beaten by Germanova. “When Kolya was little, he came to us covered in bruises. We asked him what happened. He didn’t confess for a long time, but then he said the name “Dusya.” We talked with her, but Evdokia assured us that Kolya fell down the stairs,” says the woman.
Many of Maria Arbatova’s subscribers then came out with support for the guy and condemnation of Germanova.
Larisa Guzeeva also spoke out: “Yes, I also believe that Germanova’s act is a crime and there can be no other opinion! And what? What changed in her life after she ruined the boy’s life?”
Nothing has changed. And nothing will change.
As I understand it, there will be another program about this situation, but now this topic will be raised by something like “While everyone is at home.”
It’s a little unclear, though, what should change.
Of course, no one will share the apartment anymore. Actors are generally such a category.
This is not a simple hard worker, Ivan Ivanovich, who has to struggle with a mortgage for a hundred years. They lungs people, everyone owes them everything - just like that.
I think that it’s probably better not to adopt at all than to hand the child back to the store under warranty as an unnecessary thing...
“Everything was going just fine for me and my adopted son Kolya. We felt absolutely happy... And even in the worst nightmare we couldn’t imagine what happened next,” sighs Evdokia Germanova, the leading actress of “Tabakerka”, who has played more than three dozen roles in films and on television and has recently crossed the half-century mark.
I don’t remember exactly what it was like when I arrived at the orphanage, when I was already allowed to take Kolya for a walk.
I think it's the fifth one. Or sixth? No, I don’t remember exactly. Yes, but what difference does it make... In general, 2000, summer. She arrived, as usual, before the appointed time. I'm sitting, waiting. Finally they bring out “mine” - he’s a little guy in sandals, looking around, probably looking for me. When I saw it, I think I was even happy. But he doesn’t run up. Still, as before, he approaches carefully, as if with caution. I take your hand, I feel - again wary. Well, at least he doesn’t mind. I ask: “Shall we go for a walk?” Nods silently. It seems that he even smiled... That summer day was especially good: the sun was gentle, not scorching, a light breeze, the greenery was washed after the rain and this made it somehow especially bright...
Let's go to the nearest public garden. I say something incessantly - I make up all sorts of unimaginable stories about birds, about a dragonfly, about a sad tree, about a cheerful beetle. And I’m surprised at myself where it just came from! And Kolya listens attentively, occasionally asking questions. That means he got involved in communication. They began to play hide and seek, catch up, blind man's buff. Finally, I see that the boy is exhausted, tired, and no longer reacts to anything. He’s really tiny - only a year and a half old. I take him in my arms, and suddenly... He smiled and pressed his whole body against me. He really pressed me hard. And then I fell asleep. In my arms! I look at this flushed cheek on my shoulder, at this sweet saliva and think: “After all, this trusting embrace contains the main thing - the little man unconditionally surrendered himself to me.”
And for the thousandth time I replayed the whole story of our acquaintance in my head...
HAPPINESS
For a long time I didn’t think much about children. Firstly, I didn’t want to leave my profession even temporarily, and secondly, the very fact of entering this world of childhood with all its problems frightened me. Obviously, everything could fall into place if I gave birth. But... I didn’t meet the man from whom I was destined to give birth... My first and, perhaps, only love I met in my life on the set of the film “The Hoax.” That period was generally very important in my life, because on those sets there were a lot of things for the first time for me. I smoked for the first time, tried wine for the first time and...
Photo: Mark Steinbockfell in love for the first time. And very seriously. This love filled me completely and became literally limitless. And its object was a very worthy, but very mature man, and the situation for me was hopeless, because he had a family. But, despite this, I dare to hope that he reciprocated my feelings. Our story lasted for several years, and then I stopped it - I simply forbade myself from prolonging it... Then I had different relationships with men - both light hobbies and serious romances, lived and civil marriage. All these men were worthy people, and I am grateful to Fate for these meetings. But what can I do - in my subconscious I always had that first, all-consuming love, and all other feelings could not be compared with it. Therefore, no matter how wonderful everything turned out, I still always left my lovers - the first.
In order not to give up any hope...
As a result, by the age of forty I was left alone. A terrible depression came over me - I was simply torn apart by the feeling that everything in my life was bad, I was living meaninglessly, there was no future, no one needed me - neither in life nor in my profession. In general, my entire internal territory was engulfed in complete despair and hopelessness... And so in 2000, I and a group of friends went to Turkey for the Millennium. On January 3, I decided to go to the famous ancient Church of St. Nicholas the Wonderworker - just on an excursion, with tourists. I remember going inside, and it was as if something was turning over in my soul. Some amazing, confessional state envelops me - I am filled with previously unknown feelings, thoughts, emotions.
In the footage from the last program Let Them Talk About, you can see how the actress happily shared to the whole country that at the age of 41 she decided to become a mother and took little Kolya Erokhin from the baby’s home. At that time the child was 1.5 years old. However, after 7 years, Germanova returned her adopted son to the orphanage. Evdokia called him a thief and a mentally unstable child and added that she feared for her life, as the boy was behaving inappropriately. Years later, Nikolai Erokhin, who has matured, will come to the program to meet her - the one who once adopted him and abandoned him. Watch the episode Let Them Talk - Abandoned Son famous actress Evdokia Germanova knocks on her mother’s door 09/25/2017
What will Kolya say to his former adoptive mother Evdokia Germanova? Will he be able to forgive her? When the actress took him from the orphanage as a small child, she took care of everything to make the boy feel happy. But the years passed and the actress realized that she could no longer live with him. Kolya Erokhin ended up in the hospital with a diagnosis of schizophrenia. His mother, having received a two-room apartment, declared him a psychopath. For many years Kolya, being in the orphanage, could not understand in any way what his fault was...
Let them say - The abandoned son of the famous actress Evdokia Germanova is knocking on his mother’s door
“I remember the day when Evdokia came to me in the hospital, brought gifts and said that she would not come to me again and that soon I would go to an orphanage,” recalls Kolya Erokhin, the former adopted son of Evdokia Germanova. Recently the guy turned 18 years old, he left the orphanage and is now taking his first steps into life. adult life. Today he came to Let Them Talk (the episode “The abandoned son of the famous actress Evdokia Germanova knocks on his mother’s door”) to see the one whom he still, in spite of everything, calls mom.
Nikolay Erokhin talks about his past life to the orphanage:
“When I lived with her, I almost never saw her.” She came after filming late at night and threw me off the bed, started beating me because I behaved badly at school, and got bad marks. She even hit me on the head. (crying)
- IN lately I tried to meet her one on one. I wrote to her on the Internet, called her. And she answered me that all this makes no sense and there is no need for us to see each other.
In this episode of Let Them Talk, experts try to listen to all points of view. You will also see footage of Kolya Erokhin’s meeting with Evdokia Germanova. How this meeting will end, watch the free broadcast online Let them talk - The abandoned son of the famous actress Evdokia Germanova knocks on his mother’s door, broadcast on September 25, 2017 (09/25/2017).
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The theme of one of latest issues The show “Let Them Talk” on Channel One became the story of the actress Evdokia Germanova and her adopted son Kolya, whom she took from an orphanage at the age of one and a half years and returned the boy back when he started going to school. The artist justified her action by saying that her adopted son began to show aggression, became uncontrollable and was caught stealing several times, but she could not cope with him and therefore sent him to an orphanage.
The guest of the program was Maria Arbatova, who later published a long post on Facebook on this topic. In it, she said that Germanova drank and beat the boy. “We must judge those who gave a lonely, mentally unbalanced, drinking actress (and that’s exactly how I saw her at festivals, etc. for many years) a one and a half year old child. The fact that Dunya brutally beat him is evidenced not only by the scars on his head, but also by a bunch of adults who crossed paths with them at that time,”- Maria wrote.
In addition, Arbatova said that Kolya tried to meet with his “former” mother, but nothing good came of this idea. She reported that Evdokia greeted the young man with “an obvious badun face” and “dirty language.” According to Maria, Germanova received an apartment for her adopted child and was obliged to pay Kolya alimony after she handed him back to the orphanage. However, she didn't do this. This post caused widespread public outcry. Larisa Guzeeva, who left her comment on Arbatova’s publication, did not remain aloof from the discussion of this topic.
“Usually I want to argue with you, Masha, but there are too many strangers and idle people, but here I will sign your every letter! Yes, I also believe that Germanova’s act was a crime and there can be no other opinion! And what? What changed in her life after she ruined the boy’s life?”
— Larisa asked a rhetorical question (the author’s spelling and punctuation have been preserved. — Ed.)The actress’s colleagues told the continuation of the high-profile adoption story - Kolya is studying to become a cook and will soon become a father.
Evdokia Germanova with Kolya. Photo: Channel One.Honored Artist of Russia Evdokia Germanova decided to adopt a child, since she did not have any children of her own. Now the artist is 57 years old, and she took the boy Kolya from an orphanage 17 years ago, and first arranged for patronage. A year later, she submitted documents for adoption, gave the boy her last name and he became Nikolai Nikolaevich Germanov... The guardianship had no doubts and gave the boy to the leading actress of “Tabakerka”.
In an interview, Germanova talked about the reasons for adoption: “...There was a certain selfishness and even egocentrism in my decision to take a child from an orphanage, because by and large I was saving myself. I did it out of hopelessness, out of despair, but apparently I couldn’t do it any other way... My goal was... I wanted to pass on my spiritual experience to someone, give strength, inspire something...”
Evdokia Germanova with little Kolya. Photo: Channel One.
At first, Germanova believed that she was very lucky to have a guy - inquisitive, smart, talented. But then, according to the actress, the guy began to steal, fight... She admitted him to a psychiatric hospital and Kolya was diagnosed with “chronic schizoaffective disorder.” The actress refused the boy.
But everything is not so simple in this story. The guy grew up, studied, got married, was examined - the doctors declared him absolutely healthy.
Nikolai will talk about how his life turned out in one of the upcoming episodes of “Let Them Talk.” Everything is fine with his health, and even in his personal life - he lives with his wife, the couple is expecting a child.
Kolya with a teacher in an orphanage. Photo: social networks
Maria Arbatova, who is familiar with the situation, was on the set of the program. She shared news from Nikolai’s life:
“I went to the “Let Them Talk” program about Evdokia Germanova’s adopted son Nikolai, because I met her when she was exactly Nikolai’s age. Alexander Demidov staged my youth play “The Envious” about Yuri Olesha in the studio at the “Theater” magazine, and Dunya was introduced to the role of the girl doll Suok. In my understanding, she remained a girl doll; the years had not changed anything, and when I learned that she was given a child to adopt, I was shocked. This story is loud, all the details are in plain sight, but yesterday’s shooting can sum up the plot. Of course, we must judge those who gave the lonely mentally unbalanced drinking actress (and this is exactly how I saw her at festivals, etc. for many years) a one and a half year old child. — Maria Arbatova expresses her point of view on her page on social networks. “Tabakov got her a beautiful two-room apartment for this child.” Dunya first dragged Nikolai on tour and sent him to kindergarten, and at the age of 5 she pushed him into school. An orphanage child at 5 years old! It wasn’t easy with the kindergarten either; Nikolai’s classmates who were sitting in the studio said that they regularly saw signs of beatings on him, and there were cases when the baby was afraid to go home.
The fact that Dunya brutally beat him is evidenced not only by the scars on his head, but also by a bunch of adults who crossed paths with them at that time. When Nikolai went to school, problems began, and how could they not start if the boy fell from the frying pan into the fire? He behaved badly, studied poorly, was aggressive, that is, he turned from a downtrodden, intimidated doll into a complex child with a developing character.
Dunya’s teaching talents were such that for any offense she would beat him in the face with a belt with a buckle and lock him in the toilet for a day. And then she began to sing songs that a seven-year-old child had robbed both her and the entire theater, and in general she was afraid to be alone with him at night. All this was played out in the best traditions of the “snuffbox”, and the story was staged out to a bunch of my friends with groans and wringing of hands. At the same time, everyone saw a heavily drunk Dunya in the Central House of Writers restaurant, and a cutest, well-communicated child running around the tables. One fine day, Dunya sent eight-year-old Nikolai to a psychiatric hospital, colorfully explaining that he was a thief, a maniac, a rapist, a murderer, etc. The child was kept in a psychiatric hospital for a year, because it was not clear what to do with him - his foster mother began to abandon him, and this is a long process.
Dunya’s brother, having learned about the psychiatric hospital, visited the guy and wanted to take him for himself, but guardianship did not allow him due to his age, and Dunya ended her relationship with her brother after that. As a result, Nikolai was sent to an orphanage with a diagnosis of schizotypal personality disorder. The orphanage turned out to be excellent, they certainly didn’t beat me or lock me up for a day as punishment, and when Nikolai left it, the first thing he did was remove the diagnosis. No “schizotypal personality disorder” was discovered in him, although, as you understand, such a problem would only intensify with age. He went to college to study to become a cook, began to live with a girl from the same orphanage and will soon be a father. Why did you come to the program? Yes, in order to show the only woman who appeared in his life as a mother that everything was fine with him, in order to demonstrate his own worth and, perhaps, restore at least some kind of relationship. And, of course, ask why she did this to him? After all, he was only eight years old! But an attempt to meet on camera yielded nothing but the actress’s face with an obvious hangover and her dirty language. And, meanwhile, there are also legal nuances. Germanova received an apartment for the child, and in order not to contact her, the orphanage somehow arranged for him to receive a new apartment, which, by the way, has not yet been given, and it’s already September!
If it weren't for the girl, Nikolai would have become homeless! In addition, according to the law, when placing a child in an orphanage, a parent is obliged to pay him alimony from all his income, accumulated in his savings book until adulthood. Naturally, the actress didn’t pay him a penny, and the guy has no money at all.
And in general, if it were not for her brother and ex-husband, who are taking care of Nikolai, it is completely unknown what his life would look like today. Everyone is horrified by the Del family, who made money from orphans, and the founder of this business can be recognized as Evdokia Germanova, who took advantage of an orphan, played enough and sent a healthy but unloved boy to a psychiatric hospital. You will laugh, the actress has a diploma in psychology and an international certificate of NLP-PRACTITIONER and a member of the board of trustees of the Save Life charity foundation.”
Many subscribers of Maria Arbatova came out with support for the guy and condemnation of Germanova. Larisa Guzeeva also spoke out: “Yes, I also believe that Germanova’s act is a crime and there can be no other opinion! And what? What changed in her life after she ruined the boy’s life?”
Evdokia Germanova. Photo: archive.